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On Aisha Buhari Tagging Edo Women As Prostitute

By Uwagboe Ogieva
21 / 03/ 2015

"How can Buhari stop Child Marriage when he married Aisha his present wife when she was 10 years old?.. Aisha Buhari was born in 1979, she married Buhari in 1989, then Gen. Buhari was 37 years old. Now, tell me how such a man as Buhari will stop Child marriage." - Micheal Sunday Chiazor



Aisha Buhari Insults Edo Women by calling them prostitutes
March 20, 2015


When we first heard a portion of her speech we were taken by surprise, however we had to be sure we had heard right. Now Aisha Buhari is not fluent in English and in fact makes many mistakes while speaking that if it had been the first lady social media would have blown up with it. Notwithstanding she was clear on this matter and we as a women organization take offense to it.

“Did the wife to Nigeria’s All Progressives Congress Presidential Candidate, General Muhammadu Buhari, Mrs. Aisha Buhari use a stereotypical term in addressing the people of Edo state while addressing them yesterday.” A comment made by Zenith Oduah of New wire in regards to her statement and we agree.


This is the statement made by Mrs. Aisha Buhari “I am here to let Edo women know that when my husband is elected, insecurity, girl-child trafficking and suffering of widows will end. They don’t need to go and prostitute somewhere to survive.” Really, these are the questions that come to mind.

Where was Mrs. Aisha Buhari when large numbers of individuals all over Nigeria were leaving the country for greener pastures over a decade ago and what did her husband do to empower Nigerians while in office and when he had the chance to do so? While such things are now a thing of the past and more people are being empowered by the current government we are amazed that she will use that as a campaign speech to sell General Muhammadu Buhari for office. After all is this the first time her husband is running for office, and is this not the first time she has ever bothered to come out and speak if not for the prompting of Nigerians women who found their feet under the current government.

Was it not just last year when many young girls where refused entry into Saudi Arabia during the period of Jihad to Mecca, in fact the authority insisted that they must be escorted to prevent them from prostituting in their country has Mrs. Aisha Buhari preached the end of prostitution in those states. Did she comment during the Chibok girls issue then or now, are there no widows where she comes from? Has she visited women in war torn areas where the Boko Haram and the Military has engaged and offered assistance?

We have followed her campaigns and we have never heard this woman address any state she has been to like she did ours. We are not aware of any community service by Mrs. Aisha Buhari except for the drugs worth N137 million recently donated to Imo State which of course is during the campaigns leading to elections.

And like a young man Abdul Mamud said on twitter, “If that remark isn't offensive, stereotypical and crass, nothing is. Defend it as you would want to, every foul language has what is contained within it: disdain, disrespect and disregard. No one has monopoly of abuses. I say no more.”
This was amusing; when her husband is elected insecurity will end, while the Chief Security Officer of the state in the person of Adams Oshiomhole stood by her side.
We expect an apology from her.

The Grass Root Women Vanguard

Edo State



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ON AISHA AND EDO WOMEN PROSTITUTION (APC FRAUD IN EDOLAND)

By Uwagboe Ogieva
21 / 03/ 2015

"in each zone of the country we have perculiar problems, our problems differs, for me in this zone, girls child traficking should be considered one of our problem" - Aisha buhari //

Shame on you people who said she didn't tag it Edo women or girls thing... rubbish!!! forgodsake is it Aisha to tell Edo what they need and what they should do to better their land and people? is it Aisha model enough to come and teach great Edo women how to live and and be a woman? dem...! why are we these poor minded to let ours down all the time! who is Aisha to come to Edo state and pure rubish on my mother, sister, daughter, anties and partners!!! i feel like hitting someone... seriously!!!!! dem!!!! sad sad sad!!! turn down this sh***t!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=10153104028134020&pnref=story

I wonder why no body throw a very big stone on her face. a land where you have the Oloi and the greatest princess of west african civilization..(The great Benin Kingdom). and here an islamic slave coming to pure out this trash, yet some Edo people call themselves politicians and the people's voice.. what for ? Why?

Prostitution not the problem in Edo state right now...NAPTIP and other Yoruba lorded agencies were all mouted to steal and loot not fighting any prostitution.. They come up with the same propaganda all the time italy italy italy as if they know what italy means...  Edo girls have since moved from there... have you been to italy? what do you know about italy in Nigeria that at every little thing italy!!!... just wait in another decades you will be glad Edo women took the rist and shame to pass through the hard ways to europe... most of their children are now important persons in the eu societies..many have also gotten professional degrees. Married to European, Have personally attended more than 5 weddings, with many half cast children.



Men and women travelling to abroad is not the problem in Edo! not the problem of the Nigerian people for godsake...EU, US many parts of Asia are developed countries, were you can learn and make do of your life if have the opportunity to flee the horible situation and position wazobia especially Yoruba and hausa fulani puts Edo and delta people...Nigeria is a fraud. Give us Edo-Delta people, Edo nation/ Bendel nation / midwestern nation and there will be enough for our women and children...then prostitution will be a thing of the passed
Girls do prostitution in abroad, in lagos, ibadan, kaduna, kano, onitsha, senegal south african, italy, us, etc.. then what?, Aisha buhari teaching Edo women how to be a woman? teach us how to respect a women, even when islam commands abuse on women, the koran said men and husband should beat flog their wife with cain. women are highly abuse and relegated under islamic culture...a prostitute in italy is far better than her slave and inferior mindset. at least prostitutes in eu lives free and contribute economically to their society. how can a slave in Nigeria say he or she wants to free a free man or woman in US or EU?
Edo girls are better on the streets of Europe than be slaves and instrument of explioted sex, victim of rape and abuse in nigeria. at least they are better treated, respected and the law cares for them. a country where wazobia have taken as their birth right and criminal empire, no respect for women and children. do you have social welfare for the widows? do you have law that protect women abuse? do you cares for your womens happines and pride? Nigeria is responsible and must be brought down!!



Edo women are very intelligent and wise to choose what better for them. they are heroes and should be deified.. Edo women are great. I have seen and lived with them. what most endured and survive , not any of you here can even stand a minute before it. i bet you , some of these Edo women stand before you here , i know some of you will be rushing to pull your pants... by the way, who are the ones paying hell to see these prostitutes? isn't you and I? let him/her with hands clean throw the first stone... you really think by bringing these women down you elevate and grow up?

Shame on your Yoruba fraud stars, shame on you politicians, shame on you Nigeria men abusing your women and children, shame on you stealing and robbing Edo people of their employments in public service, shame on you without respect and legal protection for your women keep abusing your women and children in Nigeria and head bent on the girls in italy... who are far more better than your ugly assh in the zoo called nigeria.. you should be ashamed of yourselves. its that simple, treat your women and children well and they will not live your home and country !


(1)"noma mien idoboro ero mwen etin" (2) n'agbon rienrien ze ihoho dan - person wey life dey sweat no dey think bad thing

Prostitution is not the priority in Edo. Why not technical colleges, institutions and small scale business credit facilities for young and age women in Edo ? why not recruit Edo women for administrative services for the state and federal government....? oh you mean to discourage Edo men and women from travelling abroad? since when have traveling abroad being the national and state problem? oh, they should remain in the animal zoo, to be forstrated and used for your unhealthy sexual apetite? Abi?

How do you get your national revenue? who do you sell your oil? who construct your roads and institutions? which education curriculum you following?. when have studing abroad worst than studing in nigeria? how many women have you seen that have travelled abroad getting home after many year still remains the village girl you use to know?...you see, if you people are wise you will concentrate more on your women and children with you to treat them well, respect them, educated your baby girl and give them the best legal protection you can, re-orientate your societies of your valued culture . women are such a great asset that many Nigeria societies of today are yet to be aware... stop bring them down, empower them and see how the whole society takes a different turn.. the other day i see a man beating his wife with a heavy stick, yet such man will come here to talk about women leaving Nigeria to prostitute in europe abi .. this is what a Yoruba police officer doing to a women...

https://youtu.be/xxbdgwieMlY .. imagine she get her way to italy. you think the italians will abuse like that

Are you really serious on stoping sex for money among men and women? how? are you married? do you have a daughter? have you travelled any part of EU or America ? are you part of public service anywhere in Nigeria or a politician? to know how to put the perspective simple enough to your understanding that all these publications are fraudulent, bias and political at best.


Some men here even go behind their matrimonial home to entise girls and women out there, then come out here shouting Edo girl collect money for sex(prostitution).. what an infantile mentality. Don't you have more important issues than prostitutions to pursue.. why not join the campaign of the restoration of great Benin sovereignty now!!! put your energy to something better and profitable business.

Anyone that brag about, his wife, mother, daughter, sister and anty a prostitute is a fool. why are yorubas, igbos,meddle belt and other ethnic no publishing and writing about prostitution in their society? when is a know fact sex for money is everywhere... are you guys jealous? what,s wrong with you coconut heads? where are you intelligents?

stop abusing women and children in your homes and societies, protect them, educate your baby girls, provide for widow and jail men guity of abuse..provide means of livelihood for them, give then credit facilities, encourage entreprenuers, empower women and children !!!!!! prostitution will be history .. stop these infantile propaganda!!!!

If the campaign committee for Aisha in Edo state are wise they will call for women institute, credit facilitie, give us at least international airport, seaport and manufacturing company... leave those going to abroad alone. focus on those at home to make life what emulating... enrich the life of Edo women .. Edo need Edo women nominees in the national cabinet

if you leaving in Nigeria and your problem are Edo girls living in italy spain holand uk or in us irespective of what they do there, then i sorry greatly for you.. i can't help your mental derange... your case is like that of a mental disorder... really?

Are you serious? is that what you need to take Edo people and nation to the promise land? is that what will turn our benin airport to international airport? is that what will create shipping line ofshore in benin river and gelel gele? is that what you need to get the Edo political control under the palace and Edo people? is that what you need to set up more universities and more federal institutions in edoland? is that what you need to call development, call more ministerial appointment for Edo women, call manufacturing industry where women will be employed in mass and growth in edoland? ... sorry for you my friend Edo girls in italy are far more better than rotting corrupt, big for nothing politician in Edo land and Nigeria you guys are bore and brain dead, hence the only place to discharge your emptiness are on the head of those poor defenceless women in your societies... untill you guys learn to protect, respect and provide for your women there will be no peace in your home, society and failed state called Nigeria
Nigeria men and women should close their heads in shame on how they abuse their women and children, come out here to be talking about italian girls... sorry for you. Why don't cure your ego, grandiose, paranaoia and corrupt minds, but be talking about those already far more better than you in the zoo called Nigeria ..

Stop those fake propaganda of prostitution in Edo? why anytime you talk about Edo people you people do nothing than begins to shout prostitution!!! are Yoruba, Igbo, Delta women not in prostitution? call it in Nigeria or oversea. are you jealous of Edo women? no wonder recent statistics show they are one of the most beautify and well presented women of Nigeria... Without Edo women Nigeria women will still be in stone age....!! can't you see how other ethnic nationalities are rushing for Edo women?

All those babylon that don't want to leave Edo girls and women alone,,,na jealousy go kill una one by one...Edo girls don pass una 100%... put Edo girls and women for ground today na Edo women everyman go wan rush...aaaa why? because una sabi better thing abi..!!!. hypocrits. nothing else you guys know of Edo women???

You said bring Edo women back from the west to Nigeria?

Edo women should leave italy and germany, holand to where? to your village of holigans and demented champazins who have no regard , respect for their women? yes Edo women facing abuse are my sisters, mothers, anties and partners... i associate with them and there survivers matters to me...you think you in Nigeria better than them in us and eu? otoya! everytime Edo women! If you so care for their progress and excellence?

(1) Why not demand Aisha to build at least 3 federal institute on women studies, affairs and young entrepreneurs in each (3) political zone of the state to only admit and train Edo women?

(2) Why not tell her to get more Edo women into public service?

(3) Why not call for manufacturing company to employ large member of Edo women?

(4) Why not tell Aisha to bring women military school to Edo to admit 80% of Edo girls?

(5) Why not call for legaly protection of Edo women every where in Nigeria against abuse, rape, unwanted child pregnancy, psychological attendance medical assistance?

(6) Why not declare some credit facilities for all Edo girls willy to take on small and large scall enterprise?

(7) Why not call for the Edo women empowerment national theatre in benin city?

all you know is women in italy, holand, germany etc... aren't you sick and mentally disorder at your way of thinking?

You know what?

I will rather allow and prefer my daughter do prostitution in holand or any where in eu or western world, if her option to survive and treated in Nigeria what you have in this video https://youtu.be/xxbdgwieMlY  .. have you been to a prostitute house? they hurt you more than those political criminal, coconut headed leaders you have in your societies? i have been to a prostitute mansion in germany, women from many nations of the earth including germany women... even with the token you pay you feel good.. so what's your problem with those in germany or other eu, us states? is that why you not treating your wifes, children and women right? are they responsible for your economic and political woe? dem what's wrong with you guys?
The issue of prostitution is more of religion than science..hence the long sway from logic, rationality and critical thinking..Swearing is away of keeping to contract which a traditional way of justice in a typical African society with traditional religion, Same way the christians swear with the bible and the muslims the Koran. Yes, for those who still believe in it and probably a cheaper way of signing their deal.. Prostitution like many other socio verse in the society need be control, guided, and legally prosecute when agaisnt the law, right of the people and abuse. Prostitution is in every modern country, state and society. In NIgeria, from lagos to kano is fill up. What is vehemently wrong from Many Nigerians including the nigeria medias is to tag sex for money as Edo thing. That girls from Edo-Delta were more at some given point in time from nigeria to the EU is irrelevant when talking about Prostition in general in the Nigerian society of today.

I studied in the eastern part of NIgeria, I saw what was going on in the campus. If we Edos are talking about handling prostitution in Edo state is a different issue all together.. however, that not a yardstick for every fowl and goat to use on Edo people and their women even when matters being discussed have no connection with prostitution. For godsake there are so many professional Edo women that need be respected whenever Edo women mentioned.
" If my husband wins,we will stop Edo girls from traveling abroad for prostitution..."~~ Aisha Buhari.




FROM THE ABUNDANCE OF THE MIND THE MOUTH SPEAKETH.



No matter how much we try to revision this statement,it will be downright suicidal for us to ignore the fact that,Aisha Buhari,her Husband,her people,her children,her town,state,zones and region hold this UNCOMPLIMENTARY view about our women.
This is one thing I can never forgive Eki Igbinedion for. She was the one who had a personal problem with her friends and felt the only way to get back at them is to launch a project against women trafficking. The business of prostituting home and abroad is done by all the races in the world including the whole ethnic groups in Nigeria. In fact,the Edo Nation frowns on it more than any traditional setting in this country. Before you see one Edo prostitute,you would have seen 30 Ibos,20 TIV/Idoma/Igala, 15 northern minorities,5 yorubas. This is the correct statistic but Eki out of greed branded Edo with the tag and it has become very difficult to remove even when it is against the true reality.


You can understand my anger when this woman whose Fulani stork have the most detestable sexual orientation can openly insult us with it.


(1) The Fulani are incest practicing race. They marry first and second cousins and even share wives between brothers inter vivo.
(2) The FULANIS sleep with their cattle where they could not satisfy their sexùal urge with humans.


(3) 45% of the Fulani population are either homosexuals or lesbians. I do not want to mention names but we are aware of how it has become very difficult for the daughters of a former president to get married because they cheat on their husbands with lesbian partners.


(4) 67% of Fulani women suffer from abdominal and virginal leakages because of adolescent and teen marriages where they were subjected to matrimonial rapes by their selected husbands. This very woman may just be suffering from it,having married a man who is 45 years her senior at the age of 15.adult pampers is a very lucrative business in the north.


(5) A 15 year old child who was sold to an old man by the parents,to me was a customary prostitution arrangement.

(6) Is the daughter of this woman not modeling abroad. Now,I know how that works. Modeling and prostitution are correlative jobs. They are coterminous and go hand in hand.


(7) for those of you abreast with the happenings in Nigeria today,the Fulani herdsmen are the ones killing,robbing and raping host communities. Mrs Buhari should ask her husband to focus taking care of their people first before insulting others.


(8) The almajiri problem which led to Boko haram is the biggest problem today in this country not even prostitution. Who are the almajiris? Aisha should tell us...not you!


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BY Awazie Chinomnso
Can someone tell me again what Buhari meant when he said he won't have a First Lady? What's Aisha now doing??? Third Lady? Oshi!


The media propaganda of Edo women and prostitution on Nigeria media should end and brought down anytime anyday because its all fraud and no solution.
Nigeria men go treat your women and children properly and prostitution will stop!! end of the story. Without elevating our women and children in our various home and communities africa going no where near modern civilization at least for a society of good leaving, fairness and progress


source: http://ihuanedo.ning.com/group/prostitution-updates-in-nigeria/forum/topics/on-aisha-and-edo-women-prostitution-apc-fraud-in-edoland
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BUHARI'S WIFE CALLS NIGERIAN DIASPORA WOMEN 'PROSTITUTES'

By Ojealaro Friday 

Listen up people, if you are a woman, and you left this country to go live in Cotonou, London, Johannessburg, America, Italy, Germany, France, in fact, anywhere at all outside Nigeria, Buhari wife says her hubby, the one and only Oluwole General is about to bring you back from 'prostitution'! Never mind if you worked your black behind off to become a doctor, attorney, engineer, musician, scientist, academician, no. So long as you are a WOMAN, having two breasts and other identities of a woman, and you are OUTSIDE NIGERIA, you are a PROSTITUTE! Good news???? Cry no more, BUHARI is bringing you back from prostitution!
Can this woman shut up already? Can't her husband gag her??? What a wuss! Opening your mouth to call diaspora women prostitutes? And I was thinking the hubby is taking the whole stuff alone!

From frying undone akara to sweeping streets, what else does she have up her sleeves apart from this hate speech? Hope she has compensated the innocent akara business woman she traumatised her business with half-baked akara, cos I personally have decided not to eat Lagos akara for the next 6 months, to be sure the ebolic half-baked akara has no chance of getting to me! Nansense!

And what is it sef with APC and women bashing? First I thought it's just their men, now, their ladies, paid, hired or stakeholders are expressing same sentiments! Take a look:
'Widow, go and die' ~ Oshiomole (Incidentally, it's his state that Buhari's wife called Diaspora women prostitutes!)

'I will not allow the office of a First Lady' ~ Buhari, the hubby of Three and Half Lady Aisha
'They are smelling homeless prostitutes' ~ Wannabe broke-ass Fake Journalist Rose Graham with regards to protesters at Chatham House during Buhari's 'PURPORTED' speech there!
'She doesn't need to leave her country to go and prostitute elsewhere' ~ Buhari's Wife, Aisha, referring to Diaspora Women!
What is wrong with these people?

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Prostitution Stigma, Edo Women And Politics Of Stereotyping

By JOAN OSA OVIAWE
Last updated: 05/20/2011

Going by the accounts of the predominance of Edo women in the prostitution trade, naive consumers of these sensationalized reports tend to be largely misinformed about Edo women.

What do the following women have in common? Mrs. Sandra Aguebor-Ekperouh, Nigeria’s first woman mechanic; Prof. Helen Osinowo, the first Professor of Clinical Psychology; Mrs. Mabel Segun, the first woman to play table tennis in Nigeria; Most Rev. Dr. Margaret Benson-Idahosa, Africa’s first female University Chancellor; Prof. Yinka Omorogbe, first African member of the Academic Advisory Group of SEERIL, International Bar Association; Justice Gladys Olotu, repelled oppressive immigration conditions for issuing passports to married women; Mrs. Ifueko Omoigui-Okauru, first woman head of the Federal Inland Revenue Service; Prof. Helen Asemota, a foremost researcher in the field of molecular biology, biochemistry and Nano technology; Prof. Francisca Oboh-Ikuenobe; a leading geologist, Senator Franca Afegbua; Nigeria’s first female senator; and Miss Anne-Marie Imafidon; worldrecord holder for the youngest girl to pass A-level computing, at age 13. Well, the answer is simple.
Unfortunately, the remarkable successes of these women often fail to resonate with the Nigerian public -as their stories and experiences have been subsumed into the prostitution narrative.


How have Edo women been stereotyped?


With the less than profound narratives of the new age of prostitution involving Nigerian women, the politics of stereotyping ensures that Edo women have become the symbolic representation of what is morally decadent and licentious in post-independence Nigeria.


While prostitution is the “oldest” profession in the World and no society is free from it, however, no other group of women anywhere in the World has suffered the prostitution stigma as much as Edo women. In places likeThailand and Amsterdam, known as World centers for prostitution, the average Thai or Dutch woman is never stereotyped as a “prostitute.”


The narratives of Edo women in popular culture, newspapers and Nollywood movies have been largely pejorative, with recycled stereotypes of prostitution, greed and lack of education becoming a template for regular regurgitation.


The Nigerian media and government agencies often do not talk about the scale of prostitution elsewhere in the country; hence the public has no frame of reference.
It is as a result of this pervasive stereotype that a new initiative to profile accomplished Edo women; called Voices of Edo Women was launched


To put it simply, prostitution is not an Edo issue, it is a Nigerian problem. Thus, instead of scapegoating Edo women for a problem that has wide and far reaching implications for the Nigerian society, the media, government agencies and other stakeholders should focus on finding sustainable ways to tackle prostitution involving Nigerian women: in Europe, Africa, on University campuses, on street corners in various Nigerian cities and as escorts for randy politicians and philandering men.
Every two minutes, somewhere in the world, an underage child is being forced into prostitution, including in all the 36 States of Nigeria and Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory.


*Joan.Osa Oviawe writes from Washington State, USA joanoviawe@gmail.com



But, the cold hard fact is that throughout history, Edo women have been achievers, even in the face of odds.
And in continuation of this history of stellar accomplishments, contemporary Edo women have not deviated from the stunning legacies of their foremothers. They are the modern day Idia, Emotan and Iden.

They are all Edo women and they are achievers. And the world is filled with achievers and heroines of Edo origin. For example, the nine-year old Imafidon twins who set the world record in A-level Mathematics at the ingenious age of 7 are also Edo indegenes.
Thus, in the predominant public discourse, by being Edo women, these amazons are simply “prostitutes.”


Why is the case of Edo women in Nigeria different? Hearing the decidedly parochial and hypocritical discourse on prostitution in Nigeria, one is almost convinced that prostitution is not triggered by socio-economic indicators like poverty, but rather, by genetic and moral defects that are uniquely Edo! Interestingly enough, the media and other social pundits never see it expedient to equally label those who are predominantly involved in 419 scams, credit card frauds, drug trafficking and so on. Why is it that what is good for the goose is not good for the gander?

The women are often depicted as uneducated, loquacious and money hungry. In Nollywood movies, anytime a movie character has an Edo name, she is invariably playing the role of a prostitute!

Recently, one of the tabloid Newspapers in Nigeria, the Daily Sun, published a report in which the journalist claimed that Benin City is both Nigeria’s “largest sex market” and the “World’s biggest sex market.”

Ordinarily, one would have ignored such a shoddy, factually fraudulent and anachronistic piece of yellow journalism.

However, if this lies is told often enough, soon it will become fact! This story highlights the reality of the contemporary Edo woman in a Nigeria where ethnic chauvinism, jingoism and myopia are the sin qua non for the politics of stereotyping.

In writing to the Editor of that tabloid newspaper, I questioned the veracity of the claims made by their journalist and asked how the World’s largest sex market could be in Benin City when the U.S. alone rakes in over $13 billion annually from the adult entertainment industry.
Worldwide, the revenue from prostitution and other forms of debauchery tops $57 billion! I wanted to know what percentage of this market has been cornered by the pimps and madams in Benin City to warrant the City being tagged with the dubious honor of “World’s largest sex Market.” Even within Nigeria, Benin City still does not count among the top ten hotspots for prostitution in the Country.

Would the journalist have dared tagged any other City in Nigeria “the World’s largest sex market”? I think not. This sort of illogical claim published by Daily Sun further underlines the nature of the politics of stereotyping in Nigeria.

This is a serious problem with dire consequences for Nigeria. The prostitution discourse in Nigeria must go beyond simplistic ethnic bashing and should be seriously examined for its social, economic, cultural and public health impact.

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